“He /she makes me want to be the best person I can,” is music to my ears when I am working with people in the dating game. In this day and age life can be challenging and couples need to be real partners to succeed in life. So before you start dating get yourself prepared!

1. Self Clarity/the Offer You Are to Someone!

Who are you? What makes you laugh, cry, indignant, angry, joyful for starters? Do you want to make a difference in the world? If so, how? Are you really single?

I mean really! Time to say good-bye to the hanger/ons and time to close all the Exit doors.

Are you a spiritual person? Are you willing to make room in your life for someone?

Set on a path to get clarity on what defines you as being special from others, find your voice and be that person! It helps the person looking for that very person find you!

2. Partner Clarity/the Offer You Are Looking For!

Start your list: must-have, must not have, and preferences.

Somewhere in the must-have/must not have, you might want to put the “really single” thing. So many people who are seriously interested in finding their life partner “forget” to ask or require this boundary. If you are a monogamous person, best you require the same from your partner. In this list, you also want to put things like no sociopaths, liars, issues that are not predictive of a long-lasting relationship.

Continue reading here: https://backbonepower.com/what-do-real-men-want-real-women/

Psychotherapist, Speaker, Coach, and Author of “Backbone Power The Science of Saying No” www.backbonepower.com https://amzn.to/2ZEdlqn http://bit.ly/getbackbone